Stop Asking for Permission to Get Paid

Why waiting for approval is costing you time, confidence, and cash

Hey Builders!

Most would-be entrepreneurs share the same hidden habit: they wait. They wait for a “big break,” a brand-name client, or a perfect product before they charge a single dollar. But money follows momentum, not permission. The quickest path to real revenue is deciding you’re already allowed to earn it and acting accordingly.

Here is how you do it:

1. Make the Mindset Shift

Chosen vs. self-chosen

Gatekeepers reward the safest bets. Builders reward themselves. The moment you stop measuring your worth by external validation and start solving real problems, you move from “pick me” to “pay me.” Confidence grows after decisions, not before.

2. Package What You Already Know

Inventory your skills

Write down every task people ask you to help with, like design tweaks, Excel fixes, resume edits, AI prompts, whatever. Each is a seed for an offer.

Create a minimum sellable package

Bundle one outcome, one timeline, and one price. “I’ll rewrite your LinkedIn headline and About section in 48 hours for $149.” Simple, clear, payable today.

3. Put the Offer in Front of People

Start where trust already exists

Friends, colleagues, niche communities, past employers, all low-friction audiences. Post the offer plainly, DM five people directly, or add it to your email signature.

Use personal outreach, not broadcast hope

A one-to-one loom, voice note, or tailored cold email beats a generic “open for business” tweet every time.

4. Ask for the Sale Directly

“Here’s how I can help. Here’s the outcome. The investment is $149. Does that work for you?”

No waffling, no apologies, no “let me know if that’s okay.” Clear pricing signals professionalism and saves buyers from awkward guesswork.

5. Deliver, Document, Iterate

Over-deliver on version 1

Great first results create testimonials and referrals, the cheapest marketing on the planet.

Document what worked

Every client interaction becomes future copy, FAQs, or a case study.

Iterate pricing and scope

Raise rates once demand outpaces capacity. Remove tasks that don’t move the needle. Add upsells that deepen results.

6. Keep Momentum Over Perfection

Perfection is a stall tactic dressed up as “high standards.” A rough draft that ships beats a flawless idea that never leaves Google Docs. Small, consistent asks compound into a reputation and recurring revenue.

Your next paycheck doesn’t require a job board hit, a viral post, or someone else’s blessing. It requires you to solve one problem for one person and ask to be paid. Decide you’re allowed, act like you’re hired, and watch permission turn into profit.

Entrepreneur Toolkit: Tools to Power Your Business

1. Payhip – Spin up a storefront for digital products, memberships, or coaching in minutes and start accepting payments today.

2. Popsy – Build a polished, Notion-style website quickly, perfect for hosting your offer page without code or high costs.

3. Lemon Squeezy – Sell globally with built-in VAT and sales-tax handling, giving you Stripe-level checkout power minus the setup headache.

Built Not Hired is built for the modern creator, freelancers, solopreneurs, and builders who want freedom and ownership. If that’s you, pick one idea and run with it.

That’s it for this issue.

Keep building! 🏃‍♂️💛

Nev Santana

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